FBC – 224 – The most important quest of your life! Forget the rest…

The most important quest of your life.

Today, I want to tell you about the single most important quest of anyone's life. Sadly this is the quest we spend the least time on because we are too distracted by meaningless distractions.

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There are very few things that are actually more important than this, if you ask me. I'm talking about knowing yourself.

This is you know, I told you my take on things, right? My take is, you know, whether you're married, you have a girlfriend. You have kids. So your wife or your girlfriend, you guys may be together for five years, 10 years, 20 years or a lifetime, and maybe soon with your kids.

Well, I mean, your kids normally will be your kids until you die. But they weren't with you when you were born. But the one person you're going to spend your whole life with from the beginning till the bitter end is yourself.

The most important quest of your life! Forget the rest..

And that's why I think you need to know yourself. I think the most important thing in my life is knowing myself. Because once you know that, then a lot of good things can come out of it. OK. Also from a business standpoint, OK.

What I'm telling you is my experience of building a business that allowed me to get my angle, which is, you know, having the life that I have. Right. So that's what I can tell you about because I've done it. That was my promise to you guys when I started this podcast. All right.

When you’re a salesperson or a business owner or something, the key is that you need to know your product better than anybody else. You need to be on top of that product. If you're still working a job and you have a boss, you just assume that the boss doesn't know anything about the product.

Trust me, you'll be surprised if you go and talk to your CEO. The dude or the chick might know all about a product way more than you do, and like all the aspects of the company. Because this is crucial. If you want to be able to effectively sell a product and service, solve problems and stuff, you need to know the product better than anybody else. You know that product you sell. So people have integrated that notion.

But there is something that's way more important than this. Is that the same people who do this, they don't actually know themselves. Because at some point some of you guys need to sell your services. You need to know everything about yourself so that you can sell the product.

Because at some point you become the product when people are paying you for your services and stuff. Right. So the same way you have to know everything about a product that you're selling, you need to know who you are too. Only a handful of people actually know themselves and actually spend the time to get to know themselves.

So in terms of business, why would that help you? Why would you be in a better position if you knew yourself? What does it do for my business?

All right, here's the thing. If you know yourself, there are a bunch of things that you know that other people don't. So you have a mask that you put on. Right. So you have this one personality, which is what people perceive. OK.

Then you have the other one, which is what you think you are. So your perception of yourself. Well, that this is very often influenced by the number one, what people think of you. Right.

So if and if you're easily influenced by other people, some people are more prone to listening to other people's comments and their opinions and stuff, then that can drastically change, you know, from one person to the other. Right.

So if everybody thinks you're the best at something, your perception of who you are will be motivated by this. The same way if people tell you that you are a loose cannon and they can’t trust you, then you'll have a poor image of yourself, which is sad.

But the more the most important one is who you are.

One thing we're all very good at is that we'll just lie to ourselves. Oh, man. You know what? I love this. I'm good at this. And I'm good at that stuff. No, no, no. And some sometimes it's like ego. Yeah. Most of the time it's ego. Right.

The most important quest of your life! Forget the rest..

So you don't want to be. You don't want to admit that. Well, maybe that's not something you like. You not good at this. It’s the last thing you like to do. Just other people are doing it. So you need to be able to do it as well?

No. When you know yourself, you realize that you couldn't be bothered with this thing. All right. And that will help you. What that will do is it will help you choose the right path for you. OK.

And it will prevent you from going on the path that's not for you. So there's stuff you really don't want to do. Right. So it will avoid a lot of frustrations. And also, once you identify your weaknesses, you just don't go there. But do you have another option you like.

Identifying your weaknesses is something that can actually help you become more reliable and relatable. And that will help you move forward in the way that you want, and not how others want you to.