FBC – 387 – Want A Beautiful Happy Life? Then do this (NOW)

Want A Beautiful Happy Life? Then do this (NOW)

Are you unhappy in your current life?

If yes, are you looking for a proven and quick way to improve your life and happiness?

Well if that's you then here's the good news:

In today's episode, I am going to give you the stupid simple formula for happiness that you can start applying right now

If you do this I GUARANTEE you that you will be a 100 times happier and that you will attract more success in your life.

Make sure not to miss this episode because there are some gems that will change your life

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The subject for today is how to make the best use of your time, OK?

So it depends on people's beliefs. Some people believe that they're going to be reincarnated. Some people believe that there's a paradise. But, you know, as far as we know, you only have one life, man. So you have to make the most of that time. Right.

And for me, it's very important that I just make the best use of the time. So what is the best use of your time? So there is no definite answer because we're all different. So if you ask me it’s, you know, doing stuff that I like doing. Stuff that I want to do.

Whether its business or anything, there are some things that I really don't want to do and I want to get rid of. In order to enjoy it, for me, the formula to have a good life is very simple. You find out what you hate, you find out what you love, and then you do as little as possible of what you hate and you do as much as possible of what you love and you'll be happy.

Right. Me I am pretty happy because I get to do what I want and what I like doing. OK, so for example, the system that I was telling you about, the system that I put in place is the perfect illustration of this. I actually leave everything. My system is designed so that I don't do all these things that I don't want to do.

So if you look at my life, I make sure that the time that I have, I don't spend it doing stuff that I really don't want to do. So the last thing I want to do is cook. Then I don't want to go and shop for groceries and stuff. I don't want to clean the house and all that kind of stuff.

So I have decided that my time is best served doing anything but this right, so I have arranged my life so that I have some help for those kinds of things.

And well, you look at me now, you can call me Mr. Fancy pants because I do have you know, someone's taking care of the pool, someone who is taking care of the garden, someone who is taking care of cleaning the house and all that kind of stuff, the laundry, taking care of everything. I don't have to do that kind of stuff, you know.

For the cooking. I don't cook. I just order, you know. But if I were living in New York or Paris or something, it will be a very different story. The food doesn't cost that much here. It's a hundred times cheaper to order if you ask me, than to go out for groceries and stuff, but yeah, the reason why I do this is because it frees up my time to do what I love doing.

Want A Beautiful Happy Life? Then do this (NOW)

OK, so the reason why I was saying that and you've probably heard this in a different light is, you know, people ask you to put it in a business perspective.

OK, so how much is your time worth? So while you're doing this, you could be making money here. You could be making money there. You could charge your client a thousand bucks or something. Right. You heard this.

What I'm saying here, it does apply for business as well because I don't have to tell folks about these things. I can do my business right. But it's more about my life. I'm going to enjoy life and I hate these things. I don't want to do them. OK, and it is true that I mean, today, the only thing I have to worry about is my business.

So, the message here is just to understand the principle. The principle is make the best out of that time, do stuff you like. And if there's something you don't like, try to find a way to get it out of your system, get it done by someone else, or if it's possible, get rid of it. OK.

Sometimes it might not be possible to get rid of it. So you'll have to find a way to either outsource it automate it or something like this. But you can't even imagine how much more beautiful my life is now that I don’t have to the things I hatred doing. Now I can just focus on all the stuff I like doing, which includes my businesses, because I love what I do.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the simple formula for a happy life?

Spend the bulk of your time doing things you genuinely enjoy and actively remove the things you dislike. You only have one life as far as we know, so making the best use of your limited time is the whole game. Martin says happiness comes from designing your days around what you love.

How does the best use of your time relate to happiness?

The best use of your time is personal, but for Martin it means doing work and activities he actually wants to do. When your days fill up with tasks you resent, happiness drains away. Reclaiming that time for meaningful, enjoyable work is the quickest route to a far more fulfilling life.

Can a happier life really attract more success?

Martin believes it can. When you operate from a place of happiness and energy, you show up better, make clearer decisions, and stay consistent. He guarantees that applying the simple formula will make you far happier, and that improved state of mind tends to pull more opportunity and success toward you over time.

What should you remove from your life to be happier?

Identify the tasks, commitments, and activities you truly do not want to do, then work to delegate, automate, or eliminate them entirely. Martin stresses getting rid of the things you dislike so the space they took up can be filled with work and experiences that you genuinely enjoy each day.

About the Author

Martin Ebongue is the founder of martinebongue.com, an online business and lifestyle design blog focused on helping aspiring entrepreneurs build location-independent businesses. Since 2014, he has been creating and scaling online ventures across multiple niches, from digital products and affiliate marketing to SaaS and content platforms, while traveling the world. He shares the real-world strategies, tools, and systems that work, with a particular focus on AI-powered automation for solopreneurs. Follow him on YouTube, X (Twitter), and Instagram.

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